At Beyond Monogamy, we believe relationships are not one-size-fits-all. Every couple has the potential to create a connection that feels authentic, fulfilling, and uniquely their own. Whether you’re curious about exploring non-monogamy or seeking to deepen love and trust, our coaching provides the tools to strengthen your bond.

Radical honesty and open communication are the foundation of thriving relationships. These principles help you navigate change with grace, respect, and greater intimacy.

We understand that discretion is essential. At Beyond Monogamy, we prioritize your privacy, creating a safe, confidential space for you to share your story and pursue your goals.

With over 30 years of coaching experience—including a decade in the lifestyle/polyamory space—we’re here to help you explore your relationship’s potential.

Let’s discover what’s possible, together.

Meet the team behind Beyond Monogamy

  • Chuck Allen

    Founder, Coach

    Chuck, founder of changelove, has dedicated over 30 years to helping individuals and couples design relationships that align with their deepest values and desires. Drawing on decades of experience and a passion for transformative growth, Chuck empowers couples to navigate life’s complexities, explore new dimensions of connection, and cultivate bonds that feel both authentic and fulfilling.

    Believing that love thrives through clarity and intention, Chuck approaches coaching with creativity, curiosity, and an unwavering commitment to his clients’ unique journeys. He specializes in creating opportunities for honest exploration, helping couples discover possibilities they may never have imagined—all within a safe and judgment-free space.

    For those seeking to redefine love, strengthen their bond, or embrace change with purpose, Chuck offers a fresh perspective and practical tools to design a relationship that works for them.

  • Don Bennion, LPC

    Relationship Coach

    Don Bennion is a relationship coach at changelove, dedicated to helping couples strengthen their bond, navigate challenges, and explore new possibilities with clarity and confidence. Drawing on principles from psychiatrist William Glasser, Don sees relationship struggles not as flaws but as opportunities for growth.

    With a focus on honest communication, mutual respect, and intentional action, Don works with clients to create fulfilling, authentic connections that align with their values. His expertise and compassionate approach make him a trusted guide for couples seeking deeper connection and transformation.